She nodded. "Asking for a point, I promise. Okay, so if you were to see Roxas practicing with weights because he wanted to be as strong as Axel. If you see him struggling and you can carry the weight, you could lift it for him. That would help in the moment... but wouldn't help him get stronger. No matter how hard it is for him to lift the weights, you doing it for him because you don't want to see a friend struggle is... well meaning but doesn’t help him get stronger. On the other hand, though," she said gently, "You can sit with him while he works. Talk to him and encourage him. Make sure if he drops the weight, it doesn't crush him. You can save him by bing there with him, even if you can't take the weight away from him." She took a deep breath. "You sitting here, making sure the weight doesn't crush me mans a lot, helps a lot. But the weight itself is something I have to learn how to carry. I can't teach others how to handle their emotions if I shove my own off on someone else."